It was 1975 and 18-year-old Jabez Tan was due to enlist for National Service (NS). Instead, his family put in a request for a year’s deferment because his father had passed away. The elder Tan had killed himself. “I was on drugs and he knew it,” Jabez, 67, told Salt&Light. At the time, he was … Continue reading Addicted to drugs, he broke his father’s heart. Years later, his sons would do the same