Faith

Truth be told: It takes courage to be kind

Peter Chao // April 7, 2019, 6:00 am

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The most effective witness was given by those who were seen to be “unschooled” and “ordinary” (Acts 4:13). That was what the religious elite concluded when they observed the kindness and courage of the first disciples.

Kindness is sensitivity to the needs of people.

As Peter and John were on their way to the temple for prayers, they saw an ugly sight at Beautiful Gate: A crippled beggar pleading for alms.

Sensing what the beggar needed was more than money, Peter pronounced: “Silver and gold I do not have, but what I have I give you. In the Name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk!” (Acts 3:6)

The response of compassion

Our needs are frequently covered by the fig leaves of our presenting problems. Only the sensitive can discern real needs, and compassion will compel them to reach out in acts of kindness. Peter perceived the healing of the crippled beggar as an “act of kindness” (Acts 4:9), for which the nervous authorities called him to account.

Only the sensitive can discern real needs, and compassion will compel them to reach out in acts of kindness.

Effective evangelism is essentially natural.

Meeting the crippled beggar was not orchestrated. Peter and John were going about their normal activity. What they did for the needy person came instinctively. It was an expected response from people sensitive to the needs of others.

We cannot manufacture compassion. It is nurtured when we spend time with Jesus. The religious rulers “took note that these men (Peter and John) had been with Jesus”. (Acts 4:13)

Compassion finds every opportunity in life’s situations to be expressed. Compassion does not need to make an appointment to “show and tell”.

Compassionate expressions are appreciated as acts of kindness. There is sincerity, vulnerability and self-giving in compassionate acts.

Being like Jesus

A person of compassion cannot sit still in the face of a need. There is a compulsion to do something, to find a way to meet the need.

There is spontaneity and creativity in finding avenues to meet the need. It is not necessary to have special training to become a compassionate person. We could be as “unschooled and ordinary” as Peter and John, but be as effective as they were.

The most effective and effusive witnesses I know have not gone to Bible school, nor were they trained in rhetoric or apologetics. They are not skilled in verbal gymnastics, but they are genuine in reaching out to others.

It is little wonder Peter and John were seen as having been with Jesus, because they behaved just like their Master.

You cannot suppress their enthusiasm nor talk them out of creating opportunities to share Christ. Frequently I have been embarrassed by their apparent naiveté or simplicity. But every time I have been astonished by the positive responses to their genuine compassion.

There have been times I have felt over-schooled into paralysis in the face of a need, preferring to analyse than to act in compassion. It is little wonder Peter and John were seen as having been with Jesus, because they behaved just like their Master.

In His own hometown, religious folks were amazed at Jesus as they asked: “Where did this man get this wisdom and these miraculous powers? Isn’t this the carpenter’s son?

“Isn’t His mother’s name Mary, and aren’t His brothers James, Joseph, Simon and Judas? Aren’t all His sisters with us? Where then did this man get all these things?” (Matthew 13:54-57)

Yet, the common folks could not have enough of Jesus, amazed that “He taught as one who had authority”. (Matthew 7:28-29)

Jesus, too, was seen as unschooled and ordinary, but what power He wielded to meet the deepest needs of humanity!

Wise fools

“Unschooled” does not mean “without substance”. “Without formal training” is not synonymous with “without content”.

When called to disclose his authority, Peter declared: “It is by the Name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified but whom God raised from the dead, that this man stands before you healed …

To those who receive God’s mercy gratefully, His unchallenged Sovereignty makes perfect sense.

“Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other Name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved.” (Acts 4:10-12)

Here is the Gospel in a nutshell, uncomfortably familiar to the religious rulers yet powerfully effective to meet the greatest human longings. Here is the exclusivity of Christ proclaimed in a most unapologetic manner, yet offensive only to the disingenuous.

To those who receive God’s mercy gratefully, His unchallenged Sovereignty makes perfect sense.

The declaration of Christ made sense in the wake of a demonstration of Divine Love. It identified the Person who has the power to make life whole. It described the larger context of God’s redemptive purposes.

Peter’s pronouncement broadened from the specific experience of the crippled beggar’s deliverance to the cosmic redemptive plan in God’s heart. The cognitive piece serves to interpret and explain the meaning of the experience of divine power.

On its own, an argument could be cogent, but not necessarily relevant or meaningful. The Gospel has, at its core, the God who loves and demonstrates that commitment to people, the object of His love. The response that is sought is a personal commitment to God. That is a response of the entire person – heart, soul and mind.

What God desires is so important that the task of witnessing to the Gospel cannot be restricted to the informed few, but must be effectively practiced by the grateful many.

Peter and John, unschooled and ordinary, were so effective in their witness that the religious leaders admitted: “Everybody living in Jerusalem knows they have done an outstanding miracle, and we cannot deny it.” (Acts 4:16)

Completely cogent

An experience of mercy and love is irrefutable. It is a loud witness, an undeniable intrusion of grace that begs an explanation. 

Because eternity is at stake, effective witness is not an optional luxury but a sacred obligation.

Peter and John were ready to give the reason for grace. They said: “We cannot help speaking about what we have seen and heard.” (Acts 4:16)

No convoluted arguments, just descriptions a witness gives – what is seen and heard. Arguments can be refuted; a truthful description of what is seen and heard cannot be contradicted.

All it takes is courage. For unschooled and ordinary people to venture a proclamation that makes a difference between heaven and hell, it takes astonishing courage. 

Only those who have drunk deep from the fountain of grace can find the compassion to exercise acts of kindness and the courage to declare the love of God in a sensitively relevant way.

Because eternity is at stake, effective witness is not an optional luxury but a sacred obligation.

Erasmus, the famous Renaissance scholar, once told an apocryphal story designed to emphasise how important it is that we take up the torch of Christ’s ministry with great commitment.

The Holy Spirit is here to melt us, mould us, fill us and use us – especially if we are untrained and ordinary.

In the story, Jesus returns to heaven after His time on earth. The angels gather around Him to learn what all happened during His days on earth. Jesus tells them of the miracles, His teachings, His death on the cross and His resurrection. When He finishes His account, Michael the Archangel asks: “But what happens now?”

Jesus answers: “I have left behind 11 faithful disciples and a handful of men and women who have faithfully followed me. They will declare My message and express My love. These faithful people will build My church.”

“But,” responds Michael, “what if these people fail? What then is Your other plan?”

Jesus answers: “I have no other plan!”

The good news is that the Holy Spirit is here to melt us, mould us, fill us and use us, especially if we are untrained and ordinary.

This article is an excerpt from the book, Ponderings En Route (Singapore, Eagles Communications, 2018), and is republished with permission. The book is available for purchase at www.eagles.org.sg.

About the author

Peter Chao

The founder of Eagles Communications, Peter Chao is a persuasive and captivating public speaker, and is equally personable, incisive and nurturing in his role as mentor and coach to leaders of corporations. He received his graduate training at Peter F Drucker and Masatoshi Ito School of Management, Claremont Graduate University, California.

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