Lontong. Nasi padang. Hand-pounded sambal belachan. The smells of authentic Indonesian curries, spices and coconut-laden desserts made up a large, memorable part of my childhood. Since my father worked overseas five days a week, my mother worked nearly six days a week, and there was an eight-year gap between my older sibling and me, one … Continue reading Should I get a domestic helper? 3 Questions to consider